Hormones

Hey hey to my blog and those that are reading this. Not long ago I heard this awesome testimony from my dad who heard it from a pastor whom heard it from who knows who. Who knows, this testimony could be true or false but I believe the message through it is still more important.

Lots of time we hear people saying "Just for one night, what could happen?", "we'll be really careful, and no one would be troubled later", "why so uptight? Won't u just chill?", "Its normal.." and who knows what else other people say. From love, the world has turn it to lust.

A girl and her family who are all devoted Christians, love God after their own heart and has always grown strongly and did everything according to His word. The girl merely a young teen is fully trusted and loved by both her parents. Normally in this kind of situation, everyone would probably think, the girl should be able to know what is right and what is wrong and would do everything right. Well lets see what happened. A boy around her age one day came over to tutor her in her studies. Both ALONE in her room. Her parents trusted both of them to just study. However after a few days, both curiosity eventually rises. One day they actually gave in and did it. The girl was so scared she tested the next day and got a negative. The boy feeling so ashamed and guilty, plead for forgiveness and repented before God. He even went up to the pastor and asked for advise. The pastor told the boy to tutor the girl in an open area where both would not be alone. So the next time the guy went over to the girl's house, he told her father to allow them to do it in the living hall. The father replied him, "I trust you and my daughter to be in the room studying, its ok". So they continued being in the room. After a few times, they eventually did it again. Unfortunately this time, the tester gave a positive sign, which meant the girl was pregnant. The family and the boy was horrified. Everyone was weeping before the pastor what to do. The mother eventually called for abortion. The pastor tried talking to her but she insisted. Abortion is like murder, which is a huge sin. Try and try, the pastor failed. The next day all of them including the pastor went to the hospital to check. The pastor only said "may the grace and mercy of God be with u", as they entered the hospital. Here starts the weird part. As the doctors were scanning for signs of the baby, they couldnt see a thing. She was then sent for testing. Results showed a blue lines, indicating there is a baby. She went for scanning again, and again no baby traced. One more time she went for testing. Results showed a thin line of blue, indicating very minimal signs of the baby. So she went for a scanner one more time. Again they couldnt find the baby. She was asked to do the tester one last time. Guess what happened? Results showed a negative, indicating no baby found. Everyone was relieved and crying thanks to God.

What can be shown here? Probably some foolish people would say, "See!! God makes sure u won't get a baby". I think not. I think here was truly shown the grace of God over the family. Everyone was really sorry for what had happened. And I guessed, God Himself didn't want to see His people cry. So He gave another chance. God is a God of second chances, if u are truly and honestly repenting. He loves you.. So of course He doesn't like to see you depressed.

For the guy and girl. Even though they didn't want to do it, however because as teenagers, we have raging hormones. Don't u say because ur a girl u can control better. Nonsense!! As long as ur a teenager, ur curious, ur tempted, i mean.. hello!! If its this really cute guy/girl or even the person u like suddenly tempts u to do it or pushes u to do it, what are the chances u WONT do it? ALL the more IF u are alone with the opposite gender in a room with no one to watch, how strong r u to say NO. Therefore.. Like I said.. For me this does not just apply to having sex or anything.. But even relationships.. Are u sure its not just your hormones thats directing u to a relationship? A lovey dovey couple relationship? How sure are you that the relationship ur in will sustain and not hurt or break u in the future? Being in one is like a drug, after a break up, u just keep looking for another to replace that feeling.

Hey, I admit myself, I know that I have hormones. Like duh.. Even I like guys, that just shows. If no hormones.. U won't be lusting or loving, then ur like.. I dunno what. Haha!! But yea.. Enough chit chat. Slping time. Mom is assuming i'm playing games now. Sigh.. Parents.. Why cant they just SEE the MONITOR before concluding. Aihz.. Not like they come in n i turn off the monitor -.-. Oh well.. Nitey nitez ppl!!

Loves~~