You know I really don't get it? I really don't get why ppl always seek and assumed the worst of the other? We most of the time say "Hey who are we to judge?" but then again, is assuming a person would be like tht, not only the action of judging, but also the action of bearing false accusations?? Ok fine, maybe that is a too strong word. But hey! Seriously?? You don't even know the person fully, you just assume, whether the person hav or have not cause ONE wrong thing towards you, you go acting like the person is some evil person that is not in ur category.
My goodness!! PEOPLE!!! Have a little TRUST! Have a lil FAITH!!! Goodness.. What is friendship, relationship and etc if YOU DON'T TRUST?????
I know it hurts. I get it that you CANT believe the person could treat u like that. You who are adored, loved and so innocent... My goodness... If u were really that good, at least you could do is forgive the person!!
I really really really don't get it. Whoever is reading this and saying I have never been thru this "betrayal", "traitoring" and etc business.. Well, sorry to burst ur bubble! I have! And many times. And yes!! It bloody hurts! But sorry lar har, ppl whom would CHERISH the relationship are true friends / lovers / close ppl.
I know of a person whom betrayed me thrice, I know of a person who practically hurt me till it soiled my own reputation in a certain place. But guess what??!! Ever thought whether the person did or didn't have true friends? Someone that you could be??
Please... Come on... Hav a lil' trust! Have a lil' FAITH!
If you dun really know them, please please please... Don't talk bout them as if they are so bad. Don't assume the worst till its been really done. Ever thought of how it might soil the relationship?
I have had MANY arguments with friends. And yes many times it healed and broke again. If life was all about daisies and butterflies and sunshine.. Then yes, maybe I WOULD believe the relationships SHOULD not have betrayal. And YES I WOULD BELIEVE THAT DIVORCE SHOULD HAPPEN.
SOME ppl just dun think bout their kids but themselves. Tsk!! Whatever lar, thats a whole different story. Buts yea.. Thats my anger steamed for today.
Ciaoz!
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