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Hmm.. I have written b4 tht I will state what kind of guy interest me rite. Lol! I find it kinda funny yet weird. MY first confession!! I have NEVER had a bf before, neither have i been in a relationship b4. However, its not that sad. I had ppl confess to me b4 but i kinda rejected them.

The Worlds POV
Whats coupling about I wonder.. Besides comforting one another. Having someone by ur side in times of trouble and joy. Knowing that ur not alone. Turning to someone to pour out your inner-most emotion to. What else? What else does the world see coupling as?

My POV
So far from my eyes what do I c coupling as would be someone to journey with in God's Word. Someone you can share bout God's Word and encouraging each other. Knowing God has given you this vry person to spend ur life with till you grow old, guiding the sons and daughters God had bless you with. what else? In genesis, God saw that Adam was lonely and therefore made a woman. So I guess God does approve of a man and woman being with each other. But that was when they were adults. How about as teenagers? Or young adults?

EXPERIENCES FROM OTHERS
After listening to some experiences, I understand that these times would not exactly be the appropriate time for coupling. But more for bonding with each other. Going out and have fun together. Getting to interact with more people and search for that one true person. True.. Its hard. Especially when u really like this person. Than he or she confesses to you. You probably cant slp a wink because you are confuse. Both your mind and heart want separate decision. The mind is probably thinking, no harm in trying.. so many people have done it before. Despite that, the heart thinks, I dun wanna play the person's heart..What happen if he or she is not the one?? Then would I not have followed God's heart??

Its scary.. Because you know that somehow, you have to make a decision. 1 out of 100 he would be the one. But then again, why rush? WAIT!! We both know how we feel for each other and that we like each other. Would that not consider us destine for each other? If that is so, why not wait?? If you guys are destine, he wont consider another girl rite? Neither would the girl consider another guy rite?

??CONCLUSION??
So what is your conclusion, Rei? My conclusion? Simple. If regarding outward appearance, I can say many. Tall, built, handsome, smart, sociable, etc.. But then again. Whats the point??? If the person is handsome, built and tall but have no love for God or fear of God or wanting to do God's purpose, what for??? He is merely a deco. The relationship prob last a week or month or so, in my case. So what am I looking for?? These are merely options I set for myself so I won't be thinking over every guy that confesses to me.

1. Believes in God (aka a Christian)
2. Loves God
3. Wants to do God's purpose
4. Grow with me in God's Word
5. Older
6. Honours parents and elders
7. Respects females (Would not force me against my will)
8. Knows his purpose
9. Would argue back with me if it is the right thing (even if he knows he might lose me)
10. Do not say those 3 words until he can finance for his own and me (torture him later to be able to care for his and my family as well =P)
11. OH YES!!! STOP USING THE F WORD!!!!
12. Does not do clubbing
13. Does not smoke
14. Drink alcohol only during functions but not excessive
15. Gamble only during chinese new year but not excessive
16. Not a playboy (Does not sweet talk only but really searches to know me)
17. Can give me encouragement not pull me down
18. Loves himself and thinks for himself also not just me or the family
19. Knows when to be serious and when to be playful
20. Loves me for my sinful and horrible side as well as my gud side

I think 21 onwards are those minor stuff.

21. Sociable
22. Protective
23. Does care to not be weaker than girls (if not how you even gonna protect urself, let alone me or the females -.-")
24. Looks at things mostly at a positive view
25. Does not judge anyone but forgives everyone (friends with everyone)

Sigh.. I cannot think anymore. Lol. I guess thats tht. I am terribly seriously crazy arent I =P. Nw you know why I havent been in a relationship. But nearly many times.

Oh well!! Lotsa love =P!!!