Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Apologies and Forgiveness

Does apologies mean everythin?? Can an apology heal a scarred soul? Can an apology recover something u lost? Can an apology bring back memories? Can an apology make everything better?

Why do many people think that everything is gonna be alright with just a simple 'sorry'? I mean.. If u had hurt someone really badly like hurt their pride, or maybe u cheated/lied to them n hurt them spiritually.. Does a simple 'sorry' heal everything?? Maybe it does for the first time out of understanding n probably love (friendship n such..). However.. What if the person keeps repeating it?? Does that actually heal the person after a 'sorry'? Or does it deepens the wound?

Its sometimes sad how people take each other for granted. Teens taking their parents for granted. Some family probably the other way round. Then there r teen's love life.. Players takin the opposite gender as if everythin will go well for the opposite side as long as they themselves r alright. What kind of thinkin do we have?? To me i think oni one word comes to mind. SELFISH!!

How hard for a person to build their strength n courage to continue their journey in their everyday life in this corrupted world. Yet, how EASY it is for a random person to destroy it all. A world that was once created for everyone to live in in peace and harmony. Now seemed almost destroyed by war n corruption.

Yet.. Many thinks.. 'sorry', 'everything bound to go alright', 'dun bother bout it', 'too busy to bother', etc.. Sometimes when we learn or write essays in sch including the sentence "caring for the next generation", do we really mean it?? Or is it a simple sentence oso just to b said n not taken attention of.. Caring for the next generations... Whose responsibility is it really?? Youth? Young adults? Adults?

Maybe being too long-winded there.. But wat makes me think bout this is probably some friends i noe that does that often..It can hurt n break friendship if its not strong. It can cause bitter cryin and sorrow to grow.. For girls, how much can u take till u break? For guys, though many appear to b strong.. Somethin that had a huge impact on u suddenly falls apart..Would it not hurt like crazy?? Though i may not b a guy.. But from a lot of stories from friends.. When a guy is hurt bad, they r really broken. Girls emo easy, but for guys.. when they r emo.. They can do stupid stuffs.. So as friends, hold strong to each other. Dun over a prob break the friendship for no one can walk alone. Care for each other. Many of ur friends prob could b ur prob. Why do we go through struggles? So that if any of our friends go through them, we can help!!

The verse from the bible "Love your neighbour as yourself" would really apply a lot here.

I guess thats that. Continuing..
13 DAYS TO SPM!!!!

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